I love all of my friends. If I didn't love them, well, they wouldn't be my friends. I also love running—and the latter has caused more than a few altercations and disagreements with the former over the years.
Being friends with someone who is passionate about running is undoubtedly a unique experience. In fact, I often wish I could provide new non-running friends with a few disclaimers up front.
It would read something like this:
I like running.
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If I didn't like running, I would have quit a long time ago. It doesn't have to make sense to you or anyone else.
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race.I don't need to talk running.
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Listen, I love running—and I'll admit that I enjoy talking about it. I know you don't run, though, so I probably won't bring it up. I am a runner, but there is more to me than that. Our friendship actually provides a welcome break from thinking or talking about running.
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race.I never regret a run.
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There have been many late nights in my life that I've regretted the next morning. Running has never made me feel that way, and maybe that's part of why I like it. I always feel better after a run, even one that didn't go as planned. If I choose to go to bed early instead of going out with you, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with me. Please don't take it personally.
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race.Running centers me.
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Everyone has their way of coping in this crazy world. Running is my coping mechanism. When I'm happy, I celebrate with a run. When I'm sad, I let my tears out on a run. Running brings me back to my center and helps me figure out what's important and what isn't.
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race.If I complain about running, it doesn't mean I want to quit.
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There are going to be days that I'm frustrated with running in general—or, specifically, how my running is going. It doesn't mean I want to quit. I know I said I don't need to talk running, but occasionally I'm going to bring it up because I see you as part of my support system. I'd love for you to remind me how much I like it and suggest that I'm simply be going through a rough patch. I don't need you to understand how I'm feeling but I would love your support.
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race.Running isn't something I do for just exercise.
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Running is so much more than just running to me. It's not just something I do to burn calories. It teaches me who I am and gives me confidence. It has changed my life and given me so much more than I ever dreamed.
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race.Running keeps me out of trouble.
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While I love dancing the night away—and oh how I love dancing the night away—I can't do that every weekend. The older I get, the harder it is for me to recover from those nights. I prefer waking up and feeling good about myself. Strange as it may seem, I now look forward to going to bed early and waking up while the rest of the world is sleeping. Of course, that doesn't mean I don't appreciate the invite. Some times I'll say yes and gladly party all night long. Other nights, not so much.
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race.I'm trying to find balance.
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I like partying and running, I like being silly and serious. I often think that life would be easier if I didn't have so many things that I like to do or want to do. But this is me and I'm trying to find a balance the best I can. I don't always get it right, but it's not for a lack of trying.
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race.You don't have to ask me about any of my races.
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It's really great when you text me and tell me good luck before a big race. If you forget, though, don't worry about it. I'm not upset. Life happens, and while running is a huge part of my life, I don't need it to be a big part of your life. I truly feel loved when you show interest, but don't feel obligated to ask me about it.
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race.I can still hang out with you on days I run long.
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Yes, long runs often make me tired, but I don't have to lay around all day. In fact, I really like active recovery and would love to hang out with you after a run!
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race.You can run if you want to.
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If you want to run, I'd be glad to help you get started. I don't bring it up because I don't want you to feel like I'm pushing it on you. If I can do it, you can do it—I mean that sincerely. We can start wherever you're able to. if you can't run more than a few steps, I'd be happy to run those steps with you and then walk the rest of the way.
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race.You don't have to run to be my friend.
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Seriously, I don't need you to run, or to understand why I do. I sincerely love that not everyone in my life is a runner. I like you just the way you are. Differences are what makes the world great.
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